Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Special Two Hour Meeting

I haven't blogged much lately.  I guess I have had a lot on my mind and a lot going on otherwise.  And until I get a new camera, I have a really hard time posting without pictures (don't worry, I am going to remedy that soon).  Actually I haven't been able to decide if I wanted to blog about what is the front runner of things in my thoughts.  But I think it important because it will change our lives quite a bit.  
A few weeks ago, our stake president announced during our Sacrament Meeting on Sunday that the meeting for the following Sunday would be a special meeting that would last 2 hours and would be shared with another ward in the stake.  Of course, everyone was wondering what the implications of this meeting were.  A boundary change was suspected, but the fact is that the current bishops of both wards had both been serving over the unwritten 5 year mark had speculation running rampant.  But I was not caught up in all of the gossip and predictions of what might happen because, well, I already knew.  

You see, we had a visit from our stake president . . . to our home.  Now seriously, how often does that happen?  Adam kept saying that he was just being thoughtful because we have young children and needed our temple recommends updated.  But I don't think that either of us really believed that.  So, as a result of that visit, during the "special meeting" Adam was called and sustained to be bishop of the Apopka, FL Ward.  

Now, earlier I mentioned that a boundary change was suspected, that assumption was correct.   I doubt that everyone knows this but my parents and I are in the same ward.  Which has been great since Adam was called to be 2nd counselor in the bishopric last June.  Having a new baby along with a 4 year old is hard by yourself, and they made up the difference.  Also, I am a primary teacher and my dad always took Ian for the last 2 hours of church so I could teach my class.  Well, as I am sure you are suspecting, the boundary change has taken my parents out of my ward.  So I have a bishop for a husband (which means he won't be around a whole lot, and not with me at all during church) and no family to help with the kids.

I don't want you to think that I am complaining.  I just wanted to share some of the thoughts swirling around in my head.   I have been especially concerned because Ian is almost 1.  And he is an extremely active little guy.  Church is a 3 hour wrestling match (and I only had the first shift, Dad took the last couple hours).  Clara is pretty good but seems to know when I can't do anything about misbehavior because my arms are full of Ian.  I know that things will work out, they always do.  In fact, after the meeting was over I had a couple wonderful women come to me from my ward and say that they knew I would need help now that my parents wouldn't be there and they are volunteering!  I am a little embarrassed to admit that my tears are welling up a little bit even now as I write that.  People can be so kind.  I am still a little anxious, but I believe that we will be blessed.  

Please, please, take this post as it was intended.  A sharing of some huge changes in my life.  I believe that everything is as it should be and that Heavenly Father will bless us, and while I know that it will not always be easy, I know that we will grow as a family and as individuals and that we will be happy if we earnestly seek to serve the Lord the best we can.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow! That sounds like a crazy time for you! It will be full of blessing, though, I'm sure of it!

Cheryl and William said...

WOW. I think that you are right to be speechless. I know that you and Adam will do a great job though!!!

America said...

I heard about the changes...that's pretty crazy! I think it will turn out to be really great though! I can't believe how the church is growing in that area...how wonderful!

KATIE said...

HOLY CRAP!!!! So...I just happened to find your blog today...through my old roommate Beth's blog...who is Greg's sister...who knows Rob and Adam...who I grew up with (and miss terribly)...blah blah blah. I was so excited to start reading and see what you guys were up to instead of getting my only updates about Adam through my mom who visit teaches his grandma. (so many connections how do I keep them strait!? Oh and I was the one who had the same wedding dress as you!) And this is the first post I read! I can't believe it! Bishop Barr!?!?! Are you kidding me? Tell him congrats and to try not to lower the movie screen onto the choir like our bishop used to. I still can't believe this. If it was April first not May first I'd think it was a joke.
My dad was the bishop when I was 2 of the newly formed Campbell Ward and left my mom with 5 kids on the bench. Adam will be fine... and so will you. Now on to see the rest of your posts and hopefully some pictures :)

Racheal said...

WOW!!! Congrats Adam....Lianne what a sweet wife you are to support him in that calling with two little kids!! I'll be thinking of you every sunday!I miss you soooooooooooo much!

XO

Stephanie said...

Wow, Lianne! That is a biggie! Adam will be a great bishop. And what a great support you area for him! I love your blog. And your little ones are just darling!!! Miss you, Stephanie Taylor

Petertammenson said...

Hugs coming your way!!

Rachel Ure said...

wow! hearing this news makes me suddenly see you guys as real grown-ups. change is scary- but i have found that the feeling of taking a leap of faith is scary but also so rewarding. love ya